He is wicked; he just used me, doesn't care about me. Barely 3 months after our wedding he revealed his true nature, a bloody womaniser with no respect for women, blah blah blah. That's what we get from some women, accusing their husbands of being irresponsible post wedding. And the men, most times, will sit back and soak it in, because the ladies believe there is a devil in every man!
Please note that there will never be good, without evil, no peace, without a war, no friends without enemies; anyone who for whatever reason believes the husband or wife is so caring, loving, nice, kind, etc; should go have their heads examined; because the devil is not in every man, but everyone.
We all have our evil sides, dark days, bad moments, at least that's what we call it, those times when a man would raise his hands to hit a woman, or the woman go out with the ex and get it on; since we humans believe someone or something has to take the blame for our actions, we believe it is safer to put it on the devil, the unseen being with a mission to only cause havoc and destroy; and I wouldn't blame them, I feel tempted to do the same myself, and maybe use to, but I recognise now (like I have always known), that (wo)man is and will always be responsible for their actions.
Whilst the devil in every man will give you that momentarily comfort, he is not to blame, neither will he eventually take full responsibility for your actions. Mistakes, we will always make; amends, we may have the opportunity to make, responsibility, we feel the need to push. Grow up and make the amends for the mistakes you have made, by taking responsibility for your actions.
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